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    February 19

    一场本不该有的对话

    前些天,老妈碰到了我以前的幼儿园老师。这种低概率事件,碰上石化和营业员老妈的双重条件,就自然地变成了高概率事件。据说,那位久未见面的老师,见到我老妈后,异常热情,问长问短,不过劈头一问,就让我妈妈十分尴尬:
    “你女儿毕业了吧?听说出国去了阿?”
    “没……”
    “那在读研究生啊?”
    “没……”
    “那在哪里啊?听人家说很久没见到了,想想大概出国去了。”
    “阿拉女儿还没毕业啦”
    “啊?是伐?”
    谈话进行到这儿,说话双方都意识到了气氛中的尴尬。于是我妈主动转换话题:
    “你女儿呢?”
    “在澳洲悉尼大学。”
    “哦……我也很久没见到你了。现在哪能?”
    “我跟我老公现在回上海去了,住在闵行,我们买了间套房。”
    “哦……”
    谈话进行到这里,嘎然而止,我妈问不下去了,她估计也没话好说了,于是双方作罢,挥手道别。
    这场对话,对于双方来说,都是不怎么愉快的。尤其是我老妈,自尊心小小受挫,回来跟我复述这段话的时候,语气中还是酸酸的。大家本不在一个阶层和水平线上,有什么好多说的呢?说句滥俗的话:人比人气死人。何必呢!做人图个心安理得,图个知足常乐。80后们信奉的是:走自己的路,让别人打车去吧!
     
     
     
     

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    linda wuwrote:
    这种老师喜欢炫耀呀,只怕没人问她家庭情况,所以看到你妈异常热情。
    出国读书而且是二流国家的,大多国内读不好。
    闵行有啥好?蛮好反问一句,“现在房价下跌,怎么不买市中心啦~”
    你这么优秀,是你妈低调呀~
    那种老师,不知道读过师范伐,一点素质也没有,塌我们老师的台~
    切~
    Feb. 20
    Estelle LIUwrote:
    我读高中的时候回石化还碰到过我小学老师,读大学的时候回来碰到过我幼儿园少年宫的跳舞老师,最夸张我妈说她经常碰到我小学二年级的班主任= =
    其实在同龄人里你很优秀来,你妈要知足……你么毕业么是因为读了更好的专业,不出国是因为能靠自己考上国内的好大学呀。表睬人家,自己过得好就行~
    Feb. 19

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